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What age do I need to be to live in an Abbeyfield retirement home?

We welcome any person aged 55 years and over to live at Abbeyfield - whether you want to downsize, simply want to live in companionship with others, or no longer feel able to continue living in your own home.

Can I move in to an Abbeyfield home with my husband or wife?

Yes – a number of our retirement homes have rooms or apartments especially for couples. When you have found a home you’re interested in, simply contact the house to check whether they accommodate couples.

Becoming a carer for a loved one can be a demanding job; you might be looking after a partner, friend, or relative, who requires care and support with a disability, illness or due to their physical or mental health. When you’re caring for someone it’s essential that you take time for yourself by finding short term care for your dependant. This is known as respite care.

In this section:

What is respite care?

Respite care is usually a short stay at a care home that can be planned ahead, or in the case of an emergency, last minute. It’s suitable for individuals seeking support following post-operative or hospital care, or whilst their regular caregiver takes a break. Respite care can also be used as a way of introducing long-term residential care to a loved one.

At Abbeyfield our respite services include, but aren’t limited to:

  • 24/7 care support from our qualified and friendly staff.
  • Daily activities.
  • Nutritious meals served daily (dietary requirements can be catered for).
  • Housekeeping and linen service.

Why is respite care important?

Taking a break from looking after a loved one is important, as caring for someone is a demanding job. Respite care offers you the chance to rest or see to with other commitments in your life.

What are respite care services?

Depending on your loved ones and your needs, there are a number of different options including:

  • live-in care: where a carer will live in the house, providing care and support day and night
  • homecare: where a carer will come for a couple of hours a day or each week
  • short stay in a care home: temporarily living in a care home where your loved one will receive care at the home
  • respite holidays: where your loved one can go on a holiday experience with respite care included, you can go on holiday with your loved one so you get a change of scenery or the carer goes on holiday whilst their loved one is cared for by someone else for a period of time
  • or a day centre: that allow people to socialise and find companionship by taking part in activities – some offer additional services like hairdressing, chiropody and assisted bathing, and sometimes transport can be provided but there could be an additional charge

These different options allow you to be sure that care services are always available to support your loved one when they need it.

What services does respite care provide?

Often respite care can include:

  • help with personal care, i.e. getting dressed, having a shower or using the toilet
  • mobility support including helping your loved one get around the house
  • managing medication
  • providing companionship and support
  • helping out with housekeeping
  • arranging visits out
  • feeding and caring for any pets
  • cooking meals
  • or going out to get food shopping

How long does respite care last?

Respite care is a short term passage of care, often for one to two weeks, from a carer who is different to your usual provider. Depending on the circumstances it can be delivered in your own home or in a care home.

How can I get respite care?

As there are many options for respite care, there are different ways to apply. The first step is to get an assessment done by searching for your Local Authority Adult Social Care Service in order to find out if you’ll qualify for council-funded services. There are two types of assessments, one for carers which is called a carer’s assessment and one for the person you’re looking after which is called a needs assessment.

The care needs assessment will look at a number of things and in order to qualify for help you need to meet a set of criteria including having a physical or mental need, you have an illness, there is an impact on your wellbeing because you’re not getting the right help that’s needed, and you need help with either eating or drinking, or need support getting washed and dressed.

Once you get your results, if you qualify, your local council has legal duty to help meet your needs. Following on from the needs assessment, a personal plan will be written which can include support with cleaning and shopping at home, providing access to day care centres to allow carers to have a break, having modifications done to the home to help with mobility or using the bathroom, among others.

How much does respite care cost?

Research from the UK Care Guide shows that the average cost for a stay in a care home starts from £800 per week. You can also find out more about paying for short-term or temporary care in a care home from Age UK.

For emergency respite care; a short stay in a care home or getting live-in care can cost as much as £1,500 per week.

Services which require a more intensive personal care plan, such as help with medication or mobility support, will typically cost more than respite care which is about providing companionship or helping with errands. For example, the cost of overnight care can anything from £15 to £30 an hour.

However, you can find out more information about specific services, and how much the UK Care Guide think it should cost when you look for care services, in their guide How much does Home Care Cost in 2023.

Respite care costs at Abbeyfield vary, so it’s best to contact your local Abbeyfield Care Home to find out pricing.

Who pays for respite care?

You can pay for respite care yourself, however you should think about how often you’re likely to need it, as depending on the types of services you’ll need, the price differs.

If you have a needs and carer’s assessment done, your local council can help if you qualify or some charities provide support too, like the Carers Trust or Turn2us. Find out more about charities that support carers on the Carers Trust website.

You may also be able to get a grant; for example, Disability Grants have the details of charities and trusts who can provide support to families and carers looking after a disabled person.

Next steps

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Is extra care right for you or your parent?

Talking to your loved ones about needing extra care at home can be difficult to discuss.If you have noticed they are finding it difficult to get up and down the stairs, are struggling or forgetting to cook or forgo getting dressed, it might be time to discuss extra care.

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How will I finance the care I need?

Arranging care at home or moving into residential care or supported living can be a complex process, but we’re here to help. Below we’ll take you through paying for care, step by step.

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What kind of care do I need?

If you think you, or someone you know, needs care, the first step is to get a care needs assessment from your local council. Find out more about what happens during a care needs assessment, how to get a care needs assessment and where to find out more information.